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September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, which can stir up many emotions for me and, I’m sure, anyone who has experienced loss by suicide. I was widowed by this deadly epidemic nearly seven years ago, but I can easily go back to those moments that culminated into the worst days of my life.

The pain I felt during the hours, days and months following Michael’s passing is indescribable. Loneliness, fear and darkness covered me.

But God’s love, mercy and compassion were bigger.

When we experience the horrific storms of this life, the key is staying linked to Christ. Though it may be a rough road and not one we would ever choose, Jesus walks beside us through it all. I realized He was the only way I would make it to through the worst side of grief. He was the only One who could comfort in the chaos. Walking with Him was the only way I would survive.

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.”
Isaiah 43:2 (NIV)

Jesus advised His followers to not only listen to His words, but to also put them into practice. And if they did, they would be like a wise man who laid his foundation on a rock.

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.”
Matthew 7:24-25 (NIV)

You see, the storm reveals the foundation on which we have built our life. We all know the impact a structurally sound foundation has on a building. Imagine the impact a structurally sound foundation has on our lives. During my darkest moments, Jesus pulled me through. He replaced lies from the enemy with truth. I built my life on the Rock of Ages, and because of that, He has and continues to sustain me.

When you place your life in the hands of Christ, He will never fail you. Sisters, whether you began following Him 30 years ago or three days ago, or are still standing on the sidelines, it is never too late. There is always an invitation to build your life upon the Rock.

Choose to make Him your foundation.

Lord, I pray for every woman experiencing the loss of their spouse, that they would place their future in Your hands, trusting You with it all. Thank you for your compassion, comfort and love. Amen.